"Maternity Ward Experience"
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Posted by izarzz97 (as ),
My daughter had her first child and my first grandchild at Armadale Hospital as an emergency C-Section. As her parent, I was concerned and therefore went to the hospital at 4.00 am to see her and check on her after the operation. However at 4.00 am, after her operation, I wasn't able to see her. Whilst sitting in the Emergency Department waiting room I was only allowed to speak to her on the phone which I found so very rude and cold. Impersonal at a time in our lives that is meant to be the most unforgettable and memorable, we were made to feel alone, and unable to help one another.
I was then not able to go and see her until visiting hours the next day that started at 3.00 pm, so I had almost a 12-hour wait before I could see her and my grandchild. It made this very special, first time moment in our lives so cold and clinical. As her parent, I wasn't able to attend the hospital earlier to see my grandchild and daughter and had to attend like any other visitor.
I understand the partner can attend earlier, but I feel also that there should be an allowance made to allow a parent of the mother to attend and check on their daughter as well as see their grandchild.
We were advised that depending on the midwife on that day, would depend on if I could come up a bit earlier to see mother and baby. On the last day, discharge day, I was then and only then allowed to go up earlier.
To top it off a friend of mine today told me that their daughter-in-law had an emergency C-section at a different hospital and was able to visit her 4 hours after. My friend was able to see their daughter-in-law and grandchild 4 hours afterwards outside of their normal visiting hours.
If I had known this first time experience was going to be like this we would have chosen to birth elsewhere and definitely not at Armadale Hospital. My friend is the parent-in-law of this birth mother and they had special preference. So beautiful, good on you to this other hospital.
My daughter felt scared, afraid, alone and in pain and wanted her parent, and you as a health service didn't give her that support to allow me in there to comfort and help her through a very scary time in her life.